We Warned You Because We Don’t Want to Be Bothered by You in The Future (Out of Kindness)
Let’s be real here. We’re bothered, so we warned you not because we felt obligated or because we had some deep connection with you, but simply because we wanted to avoid any future headaches.
Think of it as a kind gesture—a way to save you (and mostly us) from unnecessary drama down the line.
Funny, right?
But sometimes the simplest acts of kindness come with a side of self-preservation.
1. The Warning You Didn’t Take Seriously
You Thought We Were Joking:
When we first warned you, you probably thought it was some kind of joke or idle threat.
Maybe you even brushed it off, thinking we wouldn’t follow through.
But here’s the thing: we were serious.
That warning was given with the best intentions—not because we care about you deeply, but because we don’t want to deal with you in the future.
It’s really that simple.
Saving Ourselves the Trouble:
The warning was a way of saying, “Let’s not make this more complicated than it needs to be.”
We were being kind (believe it or not) by giving you a heads-up.
Our lives are already filled with tasks, missions, and responsibilities.
The last thing we want is to be bothered by unnecessary entanglements later on.
So, we gave you the warning as a way to protect our peace in the future.
2. A Strategic Move Out of Kindness (Lol)
It’s Not About You, It’s About Us:
Let’s make one thing clear: the warning wasn’t entirely about you.
Sure, we didn’t want you to get hurt or make mistakes, but the real motivation was to ensure that you wouldn’t become our problem later.
It’s a kind of strategic kindness—we give you advice, hoping you take it, so we can avoid dealing with the consequences of your choices.
We Don’t Want to Be Bothered Later:
Imagine how annoying it would be for us if, after all this time, you came back saying, “I should have listened to you.”
Yeah, no thanks.
We don’t want that.
So we warned you early, hoping that you’d take the hint and avoid bothering us in the future.
It’s our way of doing you a favor—and ourselves an even bigger one.
3. The “Kind” Side of the Warning
Preventing Future Drama:
We could have just stayed silent, let you make your mistakes, and watched the chaos unfold.
But instead, we chose to give you a heads-up.
Why?
Because we hate drama.
By warning you, we hoped to prevent the kind of unnecessary mess that would likely drag us into situations we’d rather avoid.
You can call it tough love or brutal honesty, but in reality, it was just self-preservation disguised as kindness.
The Illusion of Care:
Don’t get us wrong—we do care, just not in the way you might think.
Our warning was wrapped in a thin layer of care, enough to make you think we’re looking out for you.
But behind that care is the simple desire to avoid being dragged into your future problems.
It’s a win-win: you get advice that might help you, and we get the satisfaction of knowing we tried to prevent future headaches.
4. We Remember Everything
We Don’t Forget:
You might not think much of our warning now, but rest assured, we remember everything.
Every word, every instance, every time you ignored the advice we gave—it’s all logged in our memory.
And when the time comes, when you try to come back and say, “I should’ve listened,” we’ll be quick to remind you that we warned you.
And we warned you out of kindness (lol).
No Going Back:
We’re not the kind of people who will give you second chances after you’ve ignored the first warning.
Once we’ve made our point, that’s it.
If you choose not to listen, then don’t expect us to be there when things go south.
We warned you, and now it’s up to you to deal with the consequences.
There’s no going back on our words.
5. Our Time Is Too Valuable
We Can’t Afford to Waste Time:
Let’s be real—our time is too valuable to be spent fixing problems that could have been avoided.
That’s why we warned you early.
It was a preemptive strike to avoid having to deal with your issues later on.
We’re not interested in picking up the pieces after things fall apart.
We’d rather save ourselves the trouble and focus on more important matters.
You Were Just a Task:
To us, you weren’t some grand mission; you were just a task we needed to complete.
The warning was part of that task—our final effort to make sure everything stayed on track.
Now that the warning is out there, our part is done.
What happens next is entirely up to you, and frankly, we couldn’t care less.
We’ve moved on.
6. Future-Free from You
Kindness, But with Boundaries:
Don’t mistake our kindness for an open invitation.
We warned you because we wanted to draw a line.
You were given the advice you needed, and now that boundary is set.
We won’t be coming back to check on you, nor do we expect you to come back to us.
The door is closed.
Whatever happens next is your responsibility.
Our Kindness Was Selfish, But Honest:
Yes, we warned you out of kindness, but it was the kind of kindness that benefited us just as much as you—if not more.
It was honest.
We didn’t sugarcoat anything, and we didn’t pretend to be more invested than we really were.
It was a one-time deal, and now we’re free from any future obligation to you.
Conclusion: You’ve Been Warned—Now Leave Us Alone
We warned you because we don’t want to be bothered by you in the future.
It was a simple, straightforward gesture wrapped in kindness—but also in self-preservation.
You see, we’re not interested in sticking around to clean up after you.
Our warning was both a gift and a boundary.
We did our part, and now we expect you to handle whatever comes next.
So, as you move forward, remember this warning.
Take it seriously, or don’t—it’s your choice.
But don’t come back looking for more, because we won’t be there.
We’ve moved on, and you should too.
