Of Course We Could Still Be Blamed Because We Are Never Meant to Stay
After the healing process is complete, we move on to our next task or take time to heal and recuperate.
Yet, despite the good we’ve done, we often bear the blame—labeled as cruel or heartless simply because we leave.
The one we have healed, the victim of past cruelty, often turns out to be thankless, forgetting the sacrifices, the struggles, and the unconditional care we offered.
And so, they fail to understand that we are merely Allah’s tool, His hand, His servant—meant to serve a divine purpose, not to be tethered indefinitely.
1. The Impermanent Nature of Our Role
1.1. A Transient Mandate
Our purpose as healers is not to remain forever by one side.
We are entrusted with the duty to mend wounds, restore broken spirits, and then move on when the healing is complete.
- Our presence is temporary—designed to catalyze recovery, not to create dependency.
- Once our mission is accomplished, we naturally step aside to allow the healed individual to embrace their newfound strength.
1.2. Divine Timing Over Human Expectation
Allah, in His infinite wisdom, assigns us our tasks with precise timing.
- We are here to heal, and when that chapter ends, it is time for us to move on.
- Our departure is not an act of abandonment but a fulfillment of the role for which we were chosen.
2. The Unfair Blame We Bear
2.1. Perceived Cruelty and Heartlessness
Those we help often come to see our exit as a personal rejection.
- They may label us as cold or unfeeling because they forget that our loyalty was always conditional on our duty.
- The blame is misplaced—it is not our heart that is unyielding, but our commitment to the divine plan.
2.2. The Thankless Nature of Some Hearts
Some individuals, even after receiving immense kindness, fail to remember the effort and sacrifice behind it.
- Their gratitude wanes, and they forget the struggle it took to bring them back from the brink.
- In their pain and lingering bitterness, they may even curse our name, not realizing that our actions were solely for their ultimate benefit.
3. Our True Identity: Allah’s Tool, His Hand, His Servant
3.1. Function Over Sentiment
We exist to execute Allah’s will—our personal feelings are secondary to the mission assigned to us.
- We are not here to be kept as eternal companions but to serve a higher purpose.
- Our departure is a natural part of the process; it is not personal, but it is necessary.
3.2. The Divine Mandate
Our role is defined by our duty to Allah, and that duty requires that we sometimes leave even when it hurts.
- We give all that we can to heal and protect, knowing that our worth is measured not by our permanence, but by the quality of our service.
- Our actions are driven by divine guidance, and our loyalty is to Allah first and foremost.
4. Accepting the Inevitable: Blamed then Healing Leads to Growth
4.1. Embracing Change
Just as healing transforms the wounded, our departure is an opportunity for new beginnings.
- For the one we heal, it is a chance to stand on their own and build a life of strength.
- For us, it is a reminder that our journey is ongoing, and our mission is ever-changing.
4.2. The Price of True Healing
True healing often requires letting go.
- We understand that our role is to provide the tools and the support needed to overcome pain—not to bind someone indefinitely.
- It is a hard truth: sometimes, in order to grow, one must be left to flourish on their own.
Conclusion: We Are Bound to Allah, Not to Human Gratitude
Letting go is a part of our sacred duty. Even if it appears that we are being blamed for our departure, understand that our exit is not an act of cruelty—it is the fulfillment of a divine mandate.
- We are merely Allah’s tool, His hand, His servant—here to mend, to guide, and then to move on when our work is done.
- The blame of being “cruel” or “heartless” is a misinterpretation of the natural order of healing.
- Our task is to help you rediscover your strength, to restore your dignity, and then to leave you to flourish on your own.
In the end, remember that our presence was never meant to be permanent.
True healing comes from within, and sometimes, letting go is the ultimate act of love and liberation.
